How does one succeed in life?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I have the power to talk to aliens through using telepathy. Why do people think I'm crazy?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Ask yourself:

Is it safe to say that China is at least 30 years ahead of India?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why am I not attracted to masculine men? Why do I like more feminine attributes on a man?

What I need from you?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Making more friends is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why do many Hong Kong Chinese look different from the Han Chinese in mainland China?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.

What are some reasons for the widespread dislike of President Trump? In your opinion, has he been a good or bad president?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What are some tips for a girl with low self-esteem to start dating?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Is it true that most people in Québec are bilingual in French and English? If so, why do they often identify as monolingual?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Does not procrastinate.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Which Bibles can one read and be confident they are reading the inerrant word of God?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Were any US Generals hurt or killed yesterday in Damascus, Syria, yesterday 5/9/24?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Procrastinates a lot.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.